- In everyday life, true fights materialize.No championship belts, no grand prize – just the reason you rise and strive to overcome.
It’s not about what battles you’ve won – it’s what you stand for.
It’s sacrificing your comfort and carrying on for a cause, it’s for self-satisfaction and not the applause, it’s tearing down walls.
It’s what you exercise your might for, we all should have something to fight for.
And my fight matters – does yours?
Archives for April 2012
At the end of the day; who you are and what you do is not dependent on whether you spent the day in a 500 square foot home or 60,000 square foot home. Who you are and what you do is more about you than what you have. Trust me; I am not one of those minimalists that believe that “nothing” is better because I have nothing. Not at all, I love clothes and shoes and beautiful jewelry, I can be as crassly commercial as the next person. No – I am not a nun or an ascetic.
Here is what I mean: people who have money may have less stress in their life and that may mean that they live longer. Character-ologically, they are who they are, money or not. If you are a pedophile, you are a person who wants to have sex with children and no amount of money is going to make you a better person. If you are a loving and nurturing human being – being wealthy with money – will not change that, you may have more opportunities to be nurturing (because of your wealth) but money will not change you into something that you are not. So, if you spent today in a 1,000 square foot home and what you did was to take care of an infant in a loving way, you are no different than someone who did the same thing in a 10,000 square foot home. You are, however, very different than the person who physically and emotionally abused their family today. The person who beats their child in a 1,000 square foot house is not different than the person who beats their child in a 10,000 square foot house.
So I say that money is NOT the answer, but is only a variable in an equation. I think that the answer to the equation is always YOU. Who are you?
At some point, shouldn’t your life just be satisfying, the way that it is? Can one do without the yearning, the changing and the growing? Can we not just be, in this moment at this time, the world is enough, it is as it should be and nothing need be different.
Indeed battles often find us, we wish they would go away of their own volition, but they do not. Bravery is often a surprise, even to ourselves.