Sex is necessary and good, hopefully you will meet others who believe the same thing. Acknowledging the presence of something reduces the power of that thing.
Life needs to be out in the open. Secrets are a tool of control and almost always inappropriate. Witness the epiphany of the early part of the 21st century, understanding what people were really doing was an instrumental feature of justice.
Make decisions and change those decisions when necessary, clarity and flexibility are fantastic attributes to have.
Love your family and treat them as your faith tells you. Not all members of your family will honor you. There will be times when they will treat you badly. Decide wisely how you will live with your family.
Giving is a gift unto itself. Don’t expect anything in return for your gifts.
Acceptance of you is one of the most important things that you will ever do. By accepting yourself, you stop all enemies from gaining leverage via your self esteem. “Yes, I know I have that fault, dastardly isn’t it?” Or “yes, I am aware that it is more popular to like the color white, however, I like the color brown.”
What is the collective unconscious? What is natural knowing? What is instinct? These are all questions in which you will be part of the answer. Be aware of the universe, your awareness will serve you well in life. Religious dogma has not served humans for centuries. However, kinship and fellowship are found in churches and synagogues; use them to keep yourself and your family well.
Do not be that old angry man. Bitterness is anger that hardens into a stiffness that cannot be softened. Do not be that. You should know that in the end what matters is how you decide to live. Bitterness is an angry decision that must be renewed every day. Decide not to be that and not to have that in your life.
If you do not know what drives your anger and pain, find out. If you don’t do that, then relinquish. Hanging onto your anger and pain is the most awful decision that you can ever make. Discover, relinquish and then banish that which hurts you and angers you.
Your chosen journey is as good and as necessary as anyone else’s. Don’t allow any devaluation of you.
Protect and love others: just as you cannot allow yourself to be devalued, do not allow others to be devalued. In your presence, all must be equally valued.