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Ok so I’m going to rant! This needs to be said! I have had flood gates open to arrogance lately! Maybe it’s the cold weather when all the stupid people decide to come out! Idk! But
There is a stigma about bartenders/servers especially attractive ones! And I’d like to address this topic!
We are not dumb human beings!
Who else can multi task like a boss (I’m damn good at it) (boom) have an elongated conversation about how your girlfriend cheated on you how your boss sucks and someone pissed in your corn flakes? Make you laugh after your terrible day?
I for one genuinely like people! I like being busy I like the hustle and bustle of the hospitality industry! I like to hear people’s stories. And have learned never not once can you ever judge a book by its cover! (Bartenders see & hear everything btw) so while you running your mouths sitting on your bar stools we hear it ALL! (And judging) (because you’re just fuckin dumb)
Like anything else in life there’s the good with the bad! But sometimes the bad is just down right mind flipping boggling!
Put your finger down or I’ll bite it off don’t yell at me or I’ll yell back don’t demand I get you something or I’ll remind you of your manners that your mother should have instilled in you ( clearly not!) We are not your bitches maids or slaves!!
Don’t talk about getting a “real job” because I’ll laugh my way to the bank everytime (get real!) (cash) 90 percent of the people I work with have degrees are in school getting degrees have their own businesses who are in the business because it’s that good of money and they like what they do (minus the douche bags) (ie: this rant) who have day jobs as well, engineers, attorneys, paying their loans off, moms, dads, etc etc!
Yes I’m attractive (blame my mom sorry) (not at all that’s sarcasm) but I don’t give 2 flippin craps about looks! And it doesn’t make me stupid!
I bought my first house @19 owned my own business @23 have 2 beautiful little boys am a single mom and will own several businesses in my near future when my sons get older and I have time! Right now they are what’s most important! My days with them, school, parks, crafts, hanging out, teaching them, their moms time is what matters most period! (Bartending gives this mom that financial capability and freedom) I cry at every Disney movie I climb trees I like to wear heels get dressed up (instant feeling like a woman) I’am OCD about a lot of things especially clothes in drawers and their particular places, I like cars and fixing them, I do my own oil changes (when I can) I’ll change a tire, I want world peace, I’m super goofy and LOVE music etc etc! (Omg you’re so nice and cool I thought you were a *bleep*) wait what? why? Oh because you’re attractive! (Are you serious? Really?) come on people!!!!
Point of the story! Stop judging! Be respectful! Everyone has a “story” and you have not an iota of a clue what that is unless you actually care to know and ask! (Which bartenders always do)
Your money your looks nor your profession defines you!
How you treat human beings does!
This is a message to all! Get your noses out of the air and come back down to earth! So the next time you go out to drink, self Medicaid yourself complain and whine about your life and have the edacity to judge the person who just served you listened to you with actual concern only to tip a dollar, judge, demand, or act a fool! I’ll serve you a big glass of reality! You suck you’re clearly your own worst enemy WAKE UP take responsibility for your life and actions kick rocks and oh there might be something weird in your beer!
(Just kidding;) karma is a nasty little lady I have faith in her! I need not do anything! (Get a grip)
Good night moon!