The oddest shift occurs when your dear one is no longer endearing. You no longer speak as a ‘we’. Suddenly, the issues are ‘other’ instead of ‘we’. The endearing quality becomes a complaint that is not a reflection of you, but a reflection of ‘other’s perculiarities.
Endearing Love
When you love someone and enjoy them and want to be with them, their oddities are endearing. You will speak of the oddities as if they belong to you, because your dear one does belong to you.
