So often, people cannot talk their way through difficult situations and difficult feelings. When communication does not happen, then we are left with our perception which is our own way of thinking that purposes from our own selves. That is why it is so important for communication to actually occur between two people. When we are left with only our perception, it is often flawed by what we have decided is true about the world. Often our perception stems out of our feelings of inadequacy and powerlessness, or conversely an over-inflated sense of our own importance and need for self-indulgence. Perception is a one way street without discovery and without discussion and input from others.
This is only one reason why discussion is important. Other people help us through with discussions because humans have a habit of thinking themselves down a slippery slope. It is the world famous discussion that we have with ourselves when we truly want something and don’t believe it is possible. Being able to speak with others is often a source of inspiration and faith. It is a fact that society and community shapes lives. For example; it is a fact that teenagers who attend churches with teen on teen activities are much less likely to pick up drugs in their lifetime.
So, next time you hear the term “Perception is Reality” realize that you are either 1. in a therapist’s office 2. on the Dr. Phil show or 3. speaking with someone who really does not want to communicate ;).
