- Dissecting a conversation after it has occurred- conversations don’t need review, they are what they are. Sometimes you may need to process the conversation, but that is vastly different than judging and taking it apart to judge it.
- Commenting on dress or style – is automatically judgmental. No use denying this fact.
- If you call something or someone trashy- it is definitely judgmentalness when you believe the least about someone else.
- Reviewing an experience ad nauseam- if you need to discuss the experience beyond processing it, you are definitely judging the experience based on how you felt. If you didn’t like the experience you are sure to judge it harshly
- Any review of an experience is an opportunity to judge and to judge all of the humans involved in the experience. Leave the experience as it is.
Who knows why humans are so judgmental towards each other. There are some benefits of judging. Knowing who you want to work with is one such judgment that is important. What humans have done with it from an evolutionary standpoint is make judging into a sport. This sport has some very negative consequences.
Being human is to be judgmental, it’s judgemental, it’s just so very important to recognize it.
