The only way to be “right” is if you operate from love and acceptance. If you operate from fear, anger, or anxiety, then again, you are wrong. It won’t work, it never does.
If you are wondering why your relationships are not working, try this one simple step: open your heart and accept whatever the other person is doing. Pretend as if you have unconditional positive regards for this person. No matter what they do, you will appreciate and accept this person. This is the best way to treat people that you must be with.