The Purpose

I once attended a five day workshop entitled the “Masters Training”.  The point of the training was for everyone to find and identify their very own purpose in life.  The training was a very intense one with experiential exercises such as a litany of “Who are you?!” repeated over and over again to help you gain a sense of intuitive insight into your true nature.

As we processed over this five day exercise, we all became very excited about the possibilities that we could see blooming within us.  Yes, I really am a powerful woman!  I shared with the other participants in the training.  On the fourth day we began discussing the true point of our gathering which was to learn our purpose, as if there was an eternal, right and correct purpose in the universe that the wise and enlightened would follow.  What was revealed on that fourth day of the training is that there is no purpose in life.  Purpose is what you make it.  I remember the pervasive disappointment of that day.  We really wanted a prize for all of our efforts, we wanted a statement and a rightness to our work.  And the truth was and still is that our purpose lies within us, not without.  There is no way to find a purpose from a training or a book, we must bring the value to what we do and we must do what we bring value to.

Our true purpose is to create purpose.  What is the purpose of going off to work every day?  What is the purpose to feeding the fish?  What is the purpose of the one-up-manship games that we play with each other?  It is up to us to feel it, intuit it and then to make our activity reflect our purpose.  It is up to us to give purpose to our activity.

This brings me to my next related point, a segue shall we say?  Yesterday I bought a new dress to wear to an upcoming party.  It’s a nice sun dress and my granddaughter loved it.  The truth is that no one will really notice what I wear, and those who do will think one of two things, either “that looks ridiculous” or “isn’t she beautiful and elegant”.  I think it’s important to point all of that out, because when it comes right down to it, the purpose of the new dress is so that I feel good, so that I feel beautiful and elegant and really it doesn’t matter how anyone else sees it.  Their opinions will be reflections of whether or not they like or dislike me and in the end, have no bearing on my truth.

I think that it is important to know that our purpose is our own and that what we do, whether it be buying a new dress or working hard to help people in need, it is all about what is inside of us, not outside.  And since this is so, we should look inside for our answers as they always reside there, with our heart.