These things come from you, to you. It assumes a grounding of stability.
Stability is created from Discipline.
Discipline is a result of saying no to yourself when you look at consequences that will be negative.
Growth is a result of all of these things.
Please choose growth.
The Paradox of Parenting
It doesn’t matter how perfect you are as a parent – what your child takes from you is uniquely your child’s. This does not mean to be lazy or sloppy as a parent — because what you do matters. Yet, your children must travel their own unique journeys.