The tree compensates for imbalance by growing a long and heavy limb in the opposite direction of its tilt. JB
- Serendipity is your friend. People are beautiful, but only if you believe it. A big smile helps.
- Changes don’t trickle in; they move with a big whoosh. Move away from the coast and for heaven’s sake, get out of Florida.
- You can’t have it all, where you put your life force, is your result, so work hard first, then create a family.
- If you already have the family, then nurture them, there is no shortcut in parenting.
- Trust yourself implicitly. Sometimes, you will invest in a bad relationship anyway, when you do, forgive yourself immediately.
- Blame is a variable and you can invariably blame anyone that you like, any time that you like.
- Take responsibility for your actions, after all, no one else is “driving” you, you are driving you. That includes traffic: leave early.
- Figure out ways to love who you love: a touch, a smile, a kiss or a moment. Make sure that it lasts by giving your authentic self to the relationship.
- Right, Resentment, Revenge: keep the 3 Rs from ruining your life. You may be right, but you will end up wrong when your resentment turns to revenge.
- Go ahead and go to therapy. You can learn everything you need to know to get by with life.
- Discipline – it works when you have it. Make it easy for yourself to be disciplined. If it is too hard to be disciplined, you will not do it.
- Some days, weeks and even months are awful. It is what it is. (I hate that saying.)
- Learn balance ~
- Know when enough is enough. Don’t linger in a situation that is bad for you. You will know when it is bad.
- Good enough is enough. Perfection is over-rated.
