• Economic Equality (A Goal),  Womens Issues,  World Affairs

    American Wealth Dedicated to War

    So much of what our country does has a focus on war.  War is a way of thinking, being, believing and speaking.  Generals have unthinkable power and control over the resources of our nation.  We don’t talk about it, our national conversation never addresses the largest of elephants-in-the room and that is the war machine that lives in the world’s wealthiest nation, America.

    It is the easiest trap to fall into and that is: groupthink.  To be part of the group, you must think the same and agree with the same beliefs.  For the war machine those beliefs include a “never enough” strategy.  A willingness to commit deep crimes to convince America that there is this need for evermore money to commit to the deep hole that is the war machine.

    There is no threat to the United States that could not be eradicated by the United States, in less than two minutes.  And yet, we continue to send good men and women to their deaths in all corners of the world.  Make no mistake about it, war is profitable, and nothing stops change faster than the mighty dollar in the U.S.

    We have enough nuclear weapons to annihilate the possibility of living on planet earth.  No country comes even, a little bit close, to our power in weaponry and killing machines.

    We don’t need to continue to live the dream of World War II.  We don’t need human beings to be cannon fodder anymore.  We are smarter and we are stronger than that.

    The problem is, the Pentagon.  The powerful will not relinquish an inch of power.  Neither will the wealthy war contractors, those who manufacture tanks and rifles and rations, they will not give up the gravy train. Without the sale of war as a good cause to the American people, war would not be possible.  Currently we idolize warriors and this is a very good thing.  We are taking care of soldiers who have been damaged by the war machine.  It would be more than painful to tell these brave humans that the sacrifice was to profit rather than to country.  That doesn’t mean that we should continue to validate a need for war.  We do not need a war, we do not have a need for our sons and daughters to die.

    Truly, can anyone name a reason why we have soldiers in the middle east?  Are we saving American lives?  Are we saving any lives?  The product of war is death, there is no way around that fact.  There is nothing that changes or rearranges that fact.  War equates to death of the warriors and the innocent alike.

    Think of those that manage the huge war machine in the U.S.  It is the job of these to find threats to the United States.  It is the job to construct an argument that justifies the expense of dollars and lives.  It is the job of these to keep this war machine rolling forward and to keep increasing the expense, both in dollars and in lives.

    What if we said no?  No more war?  What if the American people said, we do not want to continue our nation in this manner.  What if we said not more war machine?  We would require a scientific, meaning, a data- driven formulation of meaningful information.  We would allow American mothers to have a vote, we would allow those who pay the price of war, not those who gain from war… to decide when and how to engage.  We could engage without risk to humans and engage without risk to civilians.

    What if we took the possibility of profit out of war?  What if contractors had to complete the complex accounting that Medicaid contractors must complete?  With the idea that auditors could come at any time and disallow expenses and therefor reduce the price of the product?  What if you went to jail for profiting from war?  What if you went to jail for being a war monger?

    Let’s not associate war with the warrior.  Let’s get out of group think and address war for what it really is: a living breathing threat to humanity and perverted profiteering for the few.

  • Womens Issues,  World Affairs

    Who are these People?


    Photo by Trym Nilsen on Unsplash

    Who are These People? And What are they Thinking?

    They take advantage of anyone and everyone to serve their own needs.  They do damage to people in order to be sexually satisfied.  In their own minds they are doing something that is quite right.  How?  How do they justify raping people, taking advantage of vulnerabilities in others, in order to have their own pleasure?  What do these people say to themselves?

    Do these people say to themselves “I am better than her, I have so much more money and she is just a peasant, why shouldn’t I take her body for myself?” or “I am better than him, he is a busboy, I am a wealthy actor, why shouldn’t I satisfy my own needs with his body?”

    And for the rapists who buy children, what do they say to themselves?  “I have bought and paid for this body, it is only an object for my pleasure.” Or, “I had sex when I was ten years old, there is no reason why I can’t have sex with this ten year old girl.”

    Or perhaps there is no awareness, nor conversation, maybe it is just animalistic instinct with no intellect to intervene.  Do people turn off their consciousness in order to perform these heinous acts on others?

    Each of the accused profess innocence loudly and voraciously.  The victim can have a video recording of the rape and still the perpetrator claims innocence.  How is this the norm for humans?  Depraved sexuality without consequence?

    Why aren’t good people more capable of stopping these activities?  Recent investigation into the Catholic church revealed staggering numbers of priests who have been accused by the faithful.  How, why and who?

    Every 98 seconds an American is sexually assaulted.

    • On average, there are 321,500 victims (age 12 or older) of rape and sexual assault each year in the United States.1
    • Ages 12-34 are the highest risk years for rape and sexual assault.3

    Studies by David Finkelhor, Director of the Crimes Against Children Research Center, show that:

    • 1 in 5 girls and 1 in 20 boys is a victim of child sexual abuse;
    1. Department of Justice, Office of Justice Programs, Bureau of Justice Statistics, National Crime Victimization Survey, 2012-2016 (2017).
    2. i. Department of Justice, Office of Justice Programs, Bureau of Justice Statistics, Sex Offenses and Offenders (1997); ii. Department of Justice, Office of Justice Programs, Bureau of Justice Statistics, Crimes Against the Elderly, 2003-2013 (2014).
    3. Department of Justice, Office of Justice Programs, Bureau of Justice Statistics, Sex Offenses and Offenders (1997).

    Who is perpetrating these crimes?  How do they believe that it is okay to sexually assault others?  Do I know any of these perpetrators?  Do they work at the 7-11, or perhaps at the dry-cleaners?  Was my doctor a rapist?  Have I met these perpetrators?  The chances are that yes, I have met many of these perpetrators.  Most certainly, I have met the victims…

    Who are these people?  Who are the people who believe that it is ok to have sex with an unwilling participant, or worse yet, someone incapable of giving consent?  Who do you have to be, to purchase child pornography?   Who do you have to be, to have sex with a woman who is unconscious?  Who do you have to be, to take advantage of a drunk bus boy?

    What will it take to stop these criminals from acting?   As a society, what do we need to do to stop sexual assaults from occurring every 98 seconds?

    We must keep talking about sexual assault, when someone reports, listen and believe.  Support assault survivors with kindness and appropriate resources.  When survivors must testify, make it safe for the survivor.

    We must punish sexual assaulters to the fullest extent of the law.

    What we must do, if we really want to address this issue is to work hard for economic equality.  People who can afford attorneys, people who can afford life, are less likely to suffer abuse, because no one will abuse someone who can strike back.  No one will abuse someone equal to them.  Currently, those who are abused are the vulnerable and the weak.  Those who cannot strike back, those who cannot speak for themselves, they are the sexually abused.

    It is because of this, that we must make victims equal in power to their perpetrators.  We must give victims, equal say and the power to fight back.

    We must also take away raw authority.  There is no reason to teach children that they must obey authority.  By teaching children in this way, we open them to the worst of vulnerabilities and that is to teach them to agree with any who may have authority.  We don’t want a society based on these concepts.  We want a society where reasoned discussion can take place and children are taught to think for themselves.  We don’t want our children following the instructions of the Catholic priest, the teacher, the police man, unless those instructions make sense.  We must ensure that our children respect their own bodies and respect their own thinking.

    And what about the adult vulnerable, those who have less strength, or less money and power?  How do we rid ourselves of those who would assault them?  How do we get men to stop drugging and raping women?  What are these men saying to themselves?  “She deserves this, for not talking to me.”  What are these men saying to each other after they have assaulted a woman?  “Way to go, I can rape girls too.”

    I am encouraged that brave people are finally talking about the assaults and taking perpetrators to court for their actions.  I am encouraged that we are finally talking about sexual assault in the open.  I am relieved that we have such a powerful tool as DNA to stop attackers from repeating rapes over and over again.  DNA gives us the power to stop the serial rapist from being successful.

    Lastly and finally, we must change the conversation.  Whatever it is that the rapist or the pedophile is telling him or herself has to be changed.  We must have a human conversation that says it is never okay to sexually assault another human being.  And for those that are incapable of joining the conversation, those who cannot intellectually reason, we must enforce the means necessary to protect the innocent from them.  We must ensure that people are not damaged by the deranged or mentally ill. 

    Our human conversation must be clear and must be universal and it must state unequivocally that all humans have the right to protect their own body.  This right is unquestionable, whether a person has the strength, the power or the money, does not matter, each person has the right to their own body and the safety of same.

  • Love and Relationships,  Management,  Personal Growth,  Philosophy,  Psychology of Life

    14 Things to say Yes to in 2019 to have a Better Life

    Sunset 2018
    • Say yes to Love.
      • Love centers every interaction with calmness.  When you love everyone, it changes how you think of them. 
    • Say yes to Abundance.
      • The world is full of abundance and anything you can wish for is available.  Believing in abundance gives you abundance.
      • Commit to challenging and changing beliefs that limit you.
    • Say yes to Honesty.
      • Lies are obvious, you have to be in denial to believe them.  It is hectic and stressful to sustain lies, even if you are the receiving party.  Honesty is easier and healthier.
    • Say yes to Responsibility.
      • Responsibility will bring you security.  When you decide on responsibility, you give yourself a home and something to build upon.
    • Say yes to Action.
      • Procrastination stops you from accomplishment, why indulge in procrastination?
    • Say yes to Boundaries.
      • When you work, work.
      • When you play, play.
      • Circumscribe your activities with purpose.
      • Consciously choose what you absorb.
      • Focus on the moment, in the moment.
    • Say yes to Relaxation with a purpose.
      • Find your relaxation response, explore meditation, or yoga, or massage and acupuncture.  Whatever your relaxation response is, find it and use it.
    • Say yes to getting rid of your mad.
      • One event deserves only one mad: spend it wisely.  Don’t regurgitate your mad over and over and over again.  Once you have completed your mad, find a way to solve your feelings and be committed to your resolution.
      • Where your attention goes, energy flows.
    • Say yes to Self Love.
      • Be loving to yourself in thoughts, words and deeds.
      • Do whatever it takes to remind yourself, that you matter and deserve love just for being you.
      • Don’t deny your true worth.
      • Do what you know is best for you.
    • Say yes to Respect for yourself and others.
      • All interactions become positive with the addition of respect.
    • Say yes to Oneness.
      • Allow yourself to see that your spirit is a part of the whole, when you see this, your place in the universe becomes infinite.
    • Say yes to Non-Violence.
      • Violence can be verbal, physical, mental or emotional.  Leave violence behind to live longer and to keep your loved ones close.  Violence separates humans from each other.
    • Say yes to Imperfection.
      • Perfection will cost you your peace of mind.  Allowing yourself to embrace the ups and downs of life will give you freedom.
      • Accept that you are perfectly imperfect.
    • Say yes to Integrity.
      • The definition of integrity is the state of being whole and undivided.  How wonderful it is to be clear and purposeful about your decisions in life?
    Girl dancing in Waves
  • Baby Boomers,  Personal Growth,  Psychology of Life

    Inalienable: The Inherent Value of Humans

    Inherent Value of Humans

    I studied inherent value as an undergrad, so it is a concept that has been around for eons, I’m sure.

    It is this idea that living things have value unto themselves.  There is no need for performance, no need for earning money, no need for work, just a belief that there is value because you are alive.

    It’s a difficult concept for me to wrap my arms around for myself.  Since I can remember, my parents drilled into my head that hard work is rewarding and self-sustaining.  Those who do not work are “lazy” and “irresponsible”.  I lived in a time and place that did not have the luxury of financially supporting anyone.  All had to work.  Finance became the measure of value, those who made $5.00 an hour were less important than those who made $10.00 an hour.

    Those who are educated are more valuable still and society rewards them for their education.  The more education, the better a person could be.  The other option for people included, beauty and wealth. The beautiful could find usefulness by attaching to wealth, either through matrimony or work.

    Adult-film actress Stephanie Clifford, also known as Stormy Daniels, puts her shoe back on after passing through a security screening, as she arrives at federal court in the Manhattan borough of New York City, April 16. REUTERS/Shannon Stapleton

    On the non-financial side is parenting.  There is very little that is more gratifying than a young one who needs you desperately.  Small children look to their parents for everything.  Mothers and fathers often measure themselves by the satisfaction of their children.  They feel their worth increases with happy children.

    When faced with the concept of inherent value, as an undergrad, I failed.  It was hard for me to understand and to believe that the value is in being alive.  I kept wanting to assign value based on work and performance.  I was chided by my professor, but he realized the concept was obscure for most.  The exam question was about the intelligence of dolphins and the ethical obligations of humans to protect them from extinction.  I kept coming back to the dolphins’ value to humans.  “No”, my professor iterated, they are valuable unto themselves without humans.


    A belief that I am sorry for…Each person has their own possibilities, not to be judged by others.

    And so, it goes that such beliefs touch every single part of any life.  Believing in work as the redemptive human quality means that those who do not work have little value as humans.  It creates exactly the kind of staircase of values that I am stringently opposed to.  I vehemently believe that all are equal.  So how do I maintain two opposing beliefs?  I probably do it the way that most people do, and that is to ignore one of the beliefs when the other belief is dominantly active in my life.  In other words, we all change our values and beliefs in our lifetimes depending on circumstance.

    Now, I am not working.  I was forced to take a retirement based on my illness.  I don’t have the money to retire so I depend on my husband for my livelihood.  This is exactly the kind of life that I sneered at when I was in the throes of a successful career based on my own hard work.  I believed everyone was capable and should be working and working h.a.r.d.

    Full circle.  All people are equal and have a right to life and living.  Our way of living is our own private decision and not to be interpreted by the beliefs of others.  As a human, I have the right to be.  I may not perform, I may not work, I may not earn money, these facts do not change my fundamental right to live.

  • Economic Equality (A Goal),  Womens Issues

    “Baby it’s Cold Outside” and other such Gender Misunderstandings

    Why “Baby it’s Cold Outside” is so Confusing

    Men sometimes do not understand the consequences of the economic inequities of power. They sometimes believe that being dominating is just part of their own personality and therefore cannot realize the effect on others. While women, not only recognize the power of economic inequity, they become hyper-vigilant because the chance of surviving the inherent difficulties of economic deprivation are better with vigilance.

    Here is my story that illustrates the blindness that can occur on both sides. This story takes place in the 1970s, I had no phone, but I worked long hours and people often called me at work.

    I lived in southern California with my brother and my sons. I was a waitress in an American restaurant, the kind that served breakfast 24 hours per day. I was 19 years old. My brother and I moved to California because, at the time, junior college was free of charge for California residents. My brother played football and attended college, and though I wanted more than anything to go to college, I had not found a way to do it while working and taking care of my sons. For a long time I worked two jobs just to get by.

    If you’ve never been to California, you’ve missed some of the most beautiful scenery there is in America. I would often drive into the mountains on the odd day off just to look at the streams that bubbled throughout the rugged rock formations of the hills and mountains. The water was perfectly clear and clean, cold and crisp. When you looked into the streams you could see the rocks and pebbles at the bottom of the flowing surge as the water rushed over them in a hurry to the floor of the valley.

    Photo Credit to NOAA

    On one such trip I planned on staying over night with friends who lived north of Los Angeles. My brother was keeping my boys over night and so I took off after work for those beautiful mountains. As I traveled the Pacific Coast Highway, I hummed and sang to the radio, elated to have a moment of free time that was just for me. It is a thrilling journey, the mountains soared to my right and in places, the beach dropped down off of the mountain as if placed there by a giant hand. The beaches lay flat against the soaring vistas of the mountain. It was amazing to see both the beach and the forested mountain at the same time. I am Gulf coast born and bred and had never seen land that reached higher than an ant hill, in Florida.

    And then…my tire blew out. I was an intrepid explorer, think “seventies” when people were still hitchhiking to get from one place to another. I felt safe, secure and happy. A young man pulled over to help me with changing my tire. We found that I had no spare, my brother had already used it to replace a rear tire that had gone flat. (Had donut tires been invented yet?)

    The young man was very generous and offered to help me. I only had enough money for dinner, I had no money for a flat tire. He paid for my tire, and by the time we were able to get it arranged, it was late and I was forced to spend the night where we were. With the tire being incomplete until morning, I welcomed the young man’s offer of shelter for the night. He was an attractive man and we had sex that night. I got my tire repaired the next day and drove home.

    No one could have been more surprised than me, when a week later, the young man called me at work. Apparently, I had told him where I worked. I answered the phone somewhat confused. He said that he wanted to see me. I didn’t know why? He heard some of my surprise and said “I thought we shared something special.” In my mind, he was a man who had taken advantage of a situation that I had no control over. He wanted to help me, but for a price. He was not altruistic, kind or even generous (as mentioned earlier) he was just someone who would take advantage of a lone woman in a bad situation on the side of the road. I had zero interest in seeing him again, why would I? He saw himself as a rescuer and someone who had done something well and good. He saw himself as someone who liked this girl who was economically disadvantaged.

    No, I don’t think so. He wasn’t happy when we hung up.

    Wow, what a misunderstanding…my picture of him was of someone who had taken advantage of me in a bad situation. His picture of himself was someone who was generous and good and had met this nice woman on the side of the road.

    I’ve seen this kind of misunderstanding one million and one times since then. I saw it within my leadership group when we were given instructions to sell a product to a stranger, and told NOT to engage in selling to waiters, waitresses or anyone in a serving position. Several men in that leadership group ignored those instructions and directed their efforts at selling, only towards those that had no choice but to listen to them: waitresses. When they were called out by the leadership group, those men got angry that the group didn’t understand their efforts.

    Are you kidding me?

    Lecturing someone who is forced to listen to you is not the same as selling something to a stranger, how do you not know that?

    Economic inequity creates power inequity. Strength of body creates power inequity. Women know this, why don’t men?

  • Economic Equality (A Goal),  Womens Issues,  World Affairs

    An Open Letter to Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez

    Dear Alexandria;

    Please be aware that you are standing at the threshold of being viciously attacked.  No one likes a beautiful woman who is smart and powerful.  It’s just not done. 

    You may think that our society has progressed past the point of keeping women in powerless positions, not so.  While our society boasts of breakthroughs inequality, you must understand that they are Madison Avenue constructs and contrived,but not real.  This country is expert at marketing.  We look good, but we are incredibly shallow.  We haven’t done the,real job of creating equality, so instead, we are at Door #3: let’s make a reality that LOOKS like equality.

    Millennials are clearly aware of this.  They know that equality is an elusive concept that has not been actualized in America. Alexandria you are a millennial, and so you know how shallow America’s promise of equality has been.

    by Kurt Meske Thank you

    What I am concerned about, is the amount of hatred and vitriol you will be faced with as you speak your truth in the hallowed halls of the United States Capitol.

    I wish you the best and so do millions of other Americans.  We love you and we see hope and brightness in your presence.  Remember this when others are attempting to hurt you and when the oligarchy attempts to damage you in a way that will have you questioning humanity.

    Alexandria, you are the chosen one, you are the speaker for those who do not or can not speak for themselves.  You are right!  They need your voice.  This country needs life, not the death that the war machine manufactures.  I love your rationale for your program ideas: “why doesn’t anyone question the cost of war, but only questions the cost of healthcare-for-all?”.  America does actually have plenty of money to take care of people.  We don’t use it in the right places.  We must begin to question the status quo in order to take care of the people of America.  Alexandria, you state that beautifully.

    Your statements are so simple and so elegant and YOU make Americans think about how humans should treat each other.  Thank you.

    Don’t forget, you are aligned against the powerful and you stand on behalf of the downtrodden.  It will appear that the oligarchy is winning many times over, you may despair, you will be angry.  Please, don’t give up and don’t give in.  You have the right of it and there will be few who see the truth and can help you.  Those who see the truth, can’t or won’t help you and support you.  Be careful!

    You are in the biggest game with the biggest players.  They are serious and deadly.  You’ll need every bit of smarts that you have.  Continue what you have been doing and keep staff that are smart and loyal.  Be aware that loyalty can’t be valued enough!  You will need it so much in the coming months and years.

    Please don’t forget, we love you.  You inspire us and we really, really want you  to help change America.  We want equality and you are part of that future.  You are part of the movement that will move this country forward.  Finally.

    You can get discouraged, angry and sad.  Don’t ever, ever give up.  You are doing the work of the weak and, and disenfranchised, you are doing the work of equality, the work of Americans.

  • Love and Relationships,  Personal Growth

    Resentment – the result of suffering a hurt that is not remedied.

    noun

    noun: resentment; plural noun: resentments

    1. bitter indignation at having been treated unfairly.

    “his resentment at being demoted”

    synonyms: bitterness, indignation, irritation, pique, dissatisfaction, disgruntlement, discontentment, discontent, resentfulness, bad feelings, hard feelings, ill will, acrimony, rancor, animosity, jaundice

    In the matter of two people having a discussion and a third person observes, judgment arises – of course – by all three.

    In the matter of two people who are working through differences, if the third person judges person A negatively – in other words, giving advice about improving one’s speech or character, you know immediately that such person sides with person B in the discussion.  Observer finds fault with the one that they do not agree with.

    Life follows this path of finding fault with those we do not agree with and even to a further extent, we find fault with those we do not like.  In this sense, if I do not like you, there is nothing that you can do to be correct.  You are wrong, you are a wrong person and that is all there is to it.

    On the other hand, if I like you, then you are right (and never to be corrected) and that is all there is to it.

    This kind of thinking only serves us in the case of new true love.  Otherwise, this thinking is dangerous for everyone.  It makes us blind to the truth of each other’s behavior and thus escalates bad behavior.

    Bad behavior lives in the dark and thrives when not confronted.  Any kind of acceptance of bad behavior helps that behavior to grow.

    Winter

    Back to the beginning of this article, be aware what your comments and your judgments reveal about you and your opinion.  Be aware when you are allowing bad behavior and encouraging the behavior to continue.  Rose colored glasses are not for an enduring and real relationship.

  • Economic Equality (A Goal),  Womens Issues,  World Affairs

    The Day After 11/6/18

    As agonizing as the fear was on election day (yesterday) I am feeling energized today.  I’ve spent more than my usual time online recently.  When I saw who was winning elections all over the country, I became hopeful.  Yes, yes, I am a Democrat, and Gosh forbid, I am also a “liberal”.  I don’t know where those labels come from, but I do believe in equality for everyone.  I ardently believe in economic equality.  I believe in truth, honesty and respect.  I believe everyone in the world has a right to health care.  So, there you are, “liberal”.

    I believe that legislators should have the decency to be objective about the fairness of laws, rather than making laws based on payments from whomever can afford them.  I believe it should be illegal for corporations to use their massive economic power to change laws and bend them to fit their own profitability goals.  An example of this is our embarrassingly low minimum wage here in the USA.  This low minimum wage is a direct result of legislators bending to the will of mega corporations such as MacDonald’s and Walmart.  These mega-corporations often finance campaigns and use other such bribery weapons in order to gain a legalized economic advantage.

    With rain comes growth.
    With rain comes growth

    Ah, but!  Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez won, she won!  How fantastic is that?  From what I am seeing and who I am meeting, I am very impressed with millennials.  I am impressed with all of the younger generations, no matter the label.  Young people seem smart and even better, caring.  The young people I meet and spend time with, the ones I read about, seem to care very much about our world.  They seem to care very much for others.  That seems to be the key to human salvation: do we care about each other?  If we care about each other, we will find a way to ensure that all Americans are cared for.  The best place to start this is through our system of government.

    I am hopeful.  The women who won these races are diverse and will bring a new conversation to the legislative table.  This new conversation cannot be ignored because it has become too loud.  Thank God for these brave women.  Thank God for democracy.

    And lest we think the job is done, here are the words of Barack Obama:  “Our work goes on. The change we need won’t come from one election alone – but it is a start. Last night, voters across the country started it. And I’m hopeful that going forward, we’ll begin a return to the values we expect in our public life – honesty, decency, compromise, and standing up for one another as Americans, not separated by our differences, but bound together by one common creed.”

  • Psychology of Life

    What is Beauty? Is it Okay to Age?

    We have allowed marketing companies and dress designers to define the beauty of women.  Every time we  wear high heels we are buying into this magical definition of what a woman should look like and what she should be.  Unfortunately, many women who are leaders, buy into this definition, however, they can afford to do so.  If you have the money to sculpt your face and your body, if you have the money to hire original designs by the best designers, you are doing so at the cost of everywoman.  You look fabulous with your balloon breasts and contoured waist, but you make everywoman who cannot afford perky breasts and a cool-sculpted stomach, feel bad.

    Why do you do this?  As a famous woman, why do you allow the perpetuation of this mythical creature called the “perfect woman”?  Why do you buy into the definition of fashion houses (and, of course, men) that will tell you what is beautiful ~ and they really have no idea, except their own idea.

    Out there in front, redefining beauty are women like Ashley Graham who gives credibility to plus sizes and Alicia Keyes who refuses to wear make-up.  Both women strongly state that women need to be who they are.

    What is beauty?

    My husband always says that proof that men are running the world is on the feet of women who still wear high heels.  What would cause a woman to wear high heels?  Fashion dictatorship; that is what causes women to wear high heels.  Anthropologists will tell you that wearing high heels (which thrusts breasts forward) is a mating ritual of old societies.  However, in these old societies, women rid themselves of the high heels once a mate is identified.  No woman willingly wears such painful footwear because she wants to, she wears this footwear to compete and to gain male acceptance.

    What is wrong with extra weight?  What is wrong with crepe paper skin? What is wrong with a wrinkly neck?  These are all natural evolutions of the human body.  It is only the marketing industry and Madison Avenue that wants us to believe that an aging body is unnatural and embarrassing.  Nothing could be further from the truth.

    The model form is unnatural.  Human beings that are “in the natural” do not look like the normal model looks.  Humans are a diverse group that come in all shapes, sizes and colors, all of which are normal and most of which are attractive.  We are all attractive when we are compared to ourselves.  It is when we compare ourselves to the television and fashion runways and magazine pictures that we become unattractive. 

    This is not to say that beauty does not exist objectively, it is to say that we have become harsh taskmasters of the beauty of women.  Marketing America has carved out one look as THE LOOK and we take no discussion.  Any woman who does not have this look is a woman that must be manufactured into this woman.  For this manufacturing process, millions of dollars in beauty products are mass produced and sold.  Plastic surgery is a multi-billion dollar business that is thriving.  How and why?  So that all women can fit into this one size, a size that is deemed correct and attractive by others that are not we.

    Why is the perfect-looking woman sexy?  Why isn’t the perfect woman a librarian or a scholar?  Why does the perfect woman need so many accoutrements?  Why does she need long eyelashes, hundreds of dollars in cosmetics and an endless supply of clothing that is form fitting and constantly revealing?

    Women, we must take back our power and define our own beauty.  It is quite fine if we do NOT spend $26.00 on a pair of underwear.  We do not need cosmetics or Forever 21 to keep us looking beautiful.  It is quite fine to be 45 years old and 65 years old and 85 years old.   We are still beautiful and certainly, smart and exceptionally wise at these ages.

     

     

     

  • World Affairs

    There is No Reason for any Young Person to Die because of War

    We have the technology.  We can manage destruction through our technology, we can win battles and wars by pushing buttons and aiming war weapons.  So why is anyone still being killed?  Why is anyone still being maimed?  Why is anyone still engaged in actual violence, when we can control our environment and our relationships with technology?

    We have enough nuclear weapons to turn the Earth into a lifeless lump of rock several times over.  Why?  We only have one Earth.

    We keep on investing in one hundred million dollar aircraft that have no where to go and no one to fight.

    We stockpile our weapons or we sell them to police stations all over the country, why?  Would we turn the tanks toward civilians?  Would we torpedo a yacht?

    We have so much, that we are forgetting the concepts behind the purchase of the weapons.  We don’t need that much, we do not really need the majority of the weapons we are currently manufacturing.

    Again, we have the technology.  We can shoot and/or bomb any enemy in a small space with a drone.  For larger threats such as Isis training camps, we have larger bombs and weapons.  Weapons that cannot be seen by our enemies.  We have weapons that bring no danger to those who steer them and shoot them.

    War and Death

    “A simple child, That lightly draws its breath…What should it know of death?”  William Wordsworth, We are Seven, as published by Time on 12/30/1991

    The current world is not interested in waging war through military weaponry.  The current world is using software to win wars.  The stock market and its many versions and fluctuations give power to the countries that manage them.  But, much more power is wielded by those with wealth.  It is not the might of  military weaponry that controls the world anymore (if it ever was).

    And yet SIPRI* reports:  “In late 2017 the US Senate approved a new military budget for 2018 of $700 billion, a substantial increase over the 2017 budget.”  The second largest spender is China and with the majority of the world’s population living in China, their budget is less than half of America’s budget.  SIPRI states: “China, the world’s second largest spender, allocated an estimated $228 billion to its military in 2017, an increase of 5.6 per cent compared with 2016.”  Even with an increase China is not getting within a fifty percent range of the U.S.

    Who wants a larger military budget?  No one, except arms manufacturers.  They are the ones who benefit from this continued madness.  We know it, they know it and every single politician knows it.  There is great profit in the military madness and we Americans allow it to continue.  The arms manufacturers make billions in profits and have a lobbyist standing on every corner in Washington D.C.  They are h.u.g.e. contributors to politicians and the attendant political parties.

    No matter who you are, know this: there is no reason for a young person to die or to be maimed in battle any more.  When it happens, know this: it is happening so that the military war machine can profit.  Our freedom is not threatened and has not been threatened since World War II.

    It’s clear to all that the new battlefields are money and information.   Our software systems make everything in the world work.  Cybersecurity should be the next international defense investment that America makes.  Machine guns are archaic and outdated tools of a battle that we no longer need to fight.  We need talented and smart people to work for the people of America giving peace it’s proper place in human history.

    We need to start a new conversation about power.  The latest dramatic scandal in Washington D.C. is a warning to everyone in America.  We must have a new conversation about money, power and success in America.  Not any of those things is worth one single human life.

    *Stockholm International Peace Research Institute (SIPRI): the independent resource on global security.